The older I get, the more convinced I become that life is simply too short to spend pretending to be someone you’re not. Each passing year reminds me how important it is to embrace our authentic selves not the version our ego creates or the one society expects, but the person we were always meant to be.
Our truest selves are often found in the dreams of our inner child the part of us that longs to create, explore, connect, and live with purpose. For some, that means dressing boldly. For others, it’s speaking honestly, making art, starting a new adventure, or loving without reservation. Whatever makes your heart feel alive deserves a place in your everyday life.
Authenticity has a way of becoming a compass. When we stop shrinking ourselves to fit outdated expectations and instead choose to live with courage and joy, we not only enrich our own lives but also inspire those around us. A lit candle can light countless others without losing its own flame. The more we allow ourselves to shine, the brighter our community becomes.
I’ve been thinking about two remarkable people who recently passed away and whose lives reflected this philosophy. My dear mother, JoAnn Allison, encouraged everyone to live in a way that would leave no room for regret when all was said and done. She believed in following your heart and treating others with kindness. Our beloved friend Dominick Breton “Mr. Wheat Ridge” shared a simple but powerful motto: “Life is short. Do stuff that matters.”
Their words continue to echo in my heart, reminding me that our greatest legacy is found in how we live, how we love, and how we encourage others to do the same.
I’m sure each of us carries wisdom from someone special a parent, grandparent, teacher, neighbor, or friend whose example continues to guide us. Those lessons deserve to be passed on. Let’s keep those torches burning by extending grace, encouraging one another, and choosing lives filled with purpose.
One of the best places to see that spirit come alive is right here in Wheat Ridge. The annual Carnation Festival Parade on August 8 is more than just a celebration it’s a reminder of what makes our community special. It’s neighbors cheering for neighbors, families making memories, and people coming together to celebrate the place we call home.
So be brave. Be yourself. Share your gifts generously, and don’t wait for the “right” time to live authentically. I hope to see you at the parade, around town, at the shop, or wherever our paths happen to cross. Together, let’s continue building a community where everyone feels encouraged to shine.
